Comments on: When do you shop? When you’re bored? Happy? Sad? Pissed off? Excited? Because it’s a habit? https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/ Money | Minimalism | Mohawks Fri, 11 Dec 2020 21:43:38 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-8008 Mon, 11 Oct 2010 02:44:28 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-8008 Haha, I like the way you think sir. I’m def. going down that road of “quality over quantity” too – esp the more I get into minimalism and that kind stuff. Thanks for stopping by!

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By: Andrew https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-7999 Sun, 10 Oct 2010 23:53:10 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-7999 I used to love spending money on clothes and i mean actively enjoy owning new clothes. But recently I’ve found myself feeling that if I’m not spending money on a) something I truly truly love or b) an investment purchase, then I’m wasting it. I’ll happily spend £200 (yep, I’m in London) on a pair of shoes but that’s only because I’ll wear them for years and they’re fabulous. Check out Jeffery-West people!

As for the investing… I have a slight Disney collection fetish going. But, I’m hoping that they will be an investment. For example, I’ll buy more of the DVDs/Blu-Rays that come out of the vault, then sell them when they’re in the fault for 3 times what I paid for them. Recently, I bought the Toy Story Collection toys (£50 each and 11 of them…with more released next year), but I love them and they could be worth something in the future. People say I don’t get any enjoyment out of them because they’re all in their sealed boxes and haven’t been opened nor will they be opened. Who knows though right… if they’re worthless in the future, I still love them.

This is rather rambling of me… I’m about quality rather than quantity e.g. I needed a new mirror. I could’ve bought a cheap pine-framed one for £20, but instead I bought an awesome one from Portobello Road for £180. It could be worth something in the future, but it’s seriously immense. It’s an investment because I won’t have to buy another in the future, except for a different room perhaps lol. I love finding things that could make money in the future. I hope to God that my instincts on my so called investments are correct!

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-2852 Sat, 15 May 2010 02:37:03 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-2852 Yeah dude, great questions to think about! Anything that gets you to stop and think for a few extra seconds before splurging away is def. good with me :) even if we still go through with it!

Thanks for sharing.

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By: Darren https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-2740 Wed, 12 May 2010 17:44:15 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-2740 Nice post. I mostly spend money for basic necessities, but I also spend when out with friends, usually eating!

Similar to the topic of this post, I’m reading a book that mentions how people sometimes spend based on emotions. But they suggested asking yourself some thought provoking questions when you’re about to make purchases, and I’m trying to implement them in my life too.

1) Is the purchase going to provide fulfillment in proportion to the amount of time and money it cost to buy it? If my watch costs $100, and I make $10 an hour, it cost 10 hours of my life to acquire that watch. I better believe that the watch is worth 10 hours of my life!

2) Is this purchase in line with my values? A more insightful/philosophical question I guess.

3) What would this purchase look like if I didn’t have to work anymore? This assumes that most people are working mainly for a paycheck, and they’re trading their life for money.

For some, asking these questions may seem like it’s sucking the fun out of life, but I think it might curb some bad spending habits!

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-2473 Mon, 03 May 2010 21:49:09 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-2473 @MPP – Yeah, would be lovely to meet you in real life :) We keep missing each other.

@ everyone else – LOVE seeing all your thoughts on this! Pretty cool how we all act differently and know what’s best (or not) for us :) Thx for sharing!

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By: MPP https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-2471 Mon, 03 May 2010 21:33:51 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-2471 I didn’t notice until today that you had linked me on your site. Thanks for the link love! You feel free to do that any time, now. ;) Btw sorry I didn’t get meet you the other day at the DC-HH. Perhaps the next one I’ll be able to come.

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By: DC https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-2465 Mon, 03 May 2010 17:55:37 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-2465 Whatup J!

I like this post because it made me think about when I spend cash, and here are a few things I realized:

1) When I am nervous about something
-In high school went shopping night before ACT

2) When I feel like I’m “investing” in what I’m buying
-Just got hired for an internship at a great company, making double my salary right now. Let’s just say I will be spending the benjamins on some dress clothes to look a little more presentable :P

3) Random
-Everyone needs a night out on the town sometime, right??

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By: Nate St. Pierre https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-2461 Mon, 03 May 2010 16:52:07 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-2461 Dude, I STILL don’t buy anything. I can’t remember the last time I bought anything that wasn’t specifically needed. Then again, that’s ’cause I have no money, haha :)

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By: MyFinancialObjectives https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-2445 Sun, 02 May 2010 23:58:16 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-2445 Nice topic! I spend money.. hmnm… pretty much at random. Usually I will be out because I NEED something, and then I’ll just happen to buy something else while I’m there. I’m a pretty big culprit for impulse buying! Though lately all of my ‘buying” has gone to “buying” back more of my own money in the form of paying off my loans quicker, therefore reducing the total interest I will pay, thus resulting in more total money for you know who! Get that?? :)

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By: Jenn https://eliteedgemoney.com/when-do-you-shop-when-youre-bored-happy-sad-pissed-off-excited-because-its-a-habit/#comment-2443 Sun, 02 May 2010 15:08:51 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=1502#comment-2443 Shopping is the least interesting thing I can think of to do. A normal week means Saturday mornings spent getting groceries, filling up the gas tank and straight back home. That’s it most weeks. Really. We only shop when something is broken and unrepairable, completely worn out, or the kids have outgrown something. We don’t even budget for clothing since we spend so infrequently. There are lots of hand me downs from cousins, we hit the consignment and thrift shops for the rest. Each gets one new trendy clothing item at Christmas (and you can bet it was bought on sale).

By choice we live waaaaay below our income on what many would see as a really tight budget, but from our perspective skipping cable, trendy wardrobes and the lastest in electronics means we live in a lovely home, have no debts, take great vacations with our kids and plan to retire in our mid 50s.It’s all about figuring out where your personal priorities are and not worrying about what your friends and neighbors are spending on. We buy used vehicles with cash. I expect we will never in our lives buy a new car and are completely fine with that. It’s not a priority to us. If we had more money that we knew what to do with then maybe I would get a new car, but since like most people can’t have everything, the first few years of a vehicle’s life is something we’re prepared to skip.

I love that our kids don’t immediately ask for everything their friends have. If they really want something, they check their savings. If they’re short they ask if there are any extra chores they can do to earn money, or they put the item on their birthday or Christmas list and are prepared to wait for it. Expecting it to be provided by us just for asking isn’t even on their minds.

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