Comments on: Three Things You Should Never Do in Retirement https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/ Money | Minimalism | Mohawks Wed, 25 Sep 2024 15:33:11 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-832913 Wed, 25 Sep 2024 15:33:11 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-832913 In reply to Scarlet.

Glad you enjoyed it, Scarlett! Going over now to check out your blog :)

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By: Scarlet https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-832911 Wed, 25 Sep 2024 12:40:43 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-832911 I love that you were inspired by blogs to retire early- that made you realize it could be a goal and an option. I need to soak in some of that inspiration myself! I do think saving money is sexy because I think it is smart for me, those are very attractive qualities. Learning how to handle money well is on ongoing pursuit and soaking details here and there really helps so thanks!

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-831864 Mon, 09 Sep 2024 16:03:50 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-831864 In reply to Joe.

“If you have plenty of stuff to do outside of work, then you’ll be fine after retirement. ” — That’s a great way of putting it! People who have lots of hobbies and are always *active* will have no problem, but if your personality is not like that like you said, then more time needs to be dedicated to figuring out how best to survive retirement, and maybe you just don’t? Cutting back hours to half time or part time might keep a strong foundation for those types of people too so it’s not so extreme.

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By: Joe https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-831863 Mon, 09 Sep 2024 15:07:54 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-831863 Nice interview. I don’t know how people get bored in retirement. Life has been so busy since I retired from my full-time job 12 years ago. There are plenty of things to do. I guess it depends on your personality. If you have plenty of stuff to do outside of work, then you’ll be fine after retirement. I haven’t been very good with the socializing part, though. All my friends are still busy.

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-831692 Wed, 04 Sep 2024 16:20:07 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-831692 In reply to Financial Fives.

hah! bad luck on your part thee 😂

but you’re 100% right on the volunteer stuff!! it’s just as beneficial to YOU as it is the people/places/organizations you’re volunteering at! we’d all do so much more of it if we didn’t have to worry about money so much :)

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-831691 Wed, 04 Sep 2024 16:17:23 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-831691 In reply to Paul.

Well fortunately they’re in school for most of the day so you get plenty of time (and rest!) for yourself before activating Dad Mode, lol… And meal prepping and fitness only takes so long so you’d be fine, believe me ;)

But you are right on the spouse thing. I get asked all the time – even from my own mom!! – if Mrs. eliteedgemoney truly is OK with it, so I’ll literally ask her every 3-4 months just in case I’ve overlooked any flags. And – I’ll ask her if she wants to join me!!! But i guess our personalities are so different that that isn’t even a thought to her as she likes the stability/routine of a 9-5 job (and health insurance!). But maybe one day ;)

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By: Financial Fives https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-831644 Tue, 03 Sep 2024 20:17:13 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-831644 Totally agree with the idea of finding things to do from 9-5, but it’s so liberating! I don’t know how people get bored in retirement, as there is always a need for volunteers, always community activism that needs support, a senior home that needs help, or books that can be read. I hope people find their second true calling, because the volunteers I’ve met at parks, trails, libraries, and museums make the experience so much better, and they are happy!

I don’t know about the places that are all uncrowded during the day though. I once took a random day off last year and the grocery store, library, car dealership, and doctors offices were all packed between 10-3 on a Wednesday!

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By: Paul https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-831639 Tue, 03 Sep 2024 19:21:20 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-831639 Honestly, I feel like there isn’t enough relatable content out there on the realities of early retirement and married people. I think it takes a special spouse to agree to a certain standard of living in perpetuity. Early retirement is only possible if both parties agree that the other person’s freedom>stuff.

I do sometimes imagine what days would be like though. I would like to think I would have the freedom to focus on physical fitness and personal hobbies but in reality my days would probably just be prepping meals for my family, cleaning the house and then carting my 4 kids around to their 7 different sports practices (which, can be annoying to spend so much time in the car) but I wouldn’t trade this time in my life for the world. Working I would trade but that’s it.

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-831631 Tue, 03 Sep 2024 13:45:49 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-831631 In reply to Fritz @ The Retirement Manifesto.

YES!! I knew I had heard of someone in our community doing this, just couldn’t recall who…. I updated the post to include your article too – I remember reading it and thinking how powerful (and fun sounding!) it was! Thx for dropping it 🤙

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By: Fritz @ The Retirement Manifesto https://eliteedgemoney.com/dont-do-these-in-retirement/#comment-831630 Tue, 03 Sep 2024 12:41:21 +0000 https://eliteedgemoney.com/?p=67956#comment-831630 Glad to see the Mastermind concept in your PS. Starting a group has been one of the best things I’ve done in retirement, and I’m pleased to see the concept starting to gain traction in the online world. Here’s what I’ve learned from my group, for those who may be interested:

https://www.theretirementmanifesto.com/what-ive-learned-from-my-retirement-mastermind-group/

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